Yesterday I went to the library to pick up a few books. I came home with, "The New Strong-Willed Child," and "Parenting the Strong-Willed Child." These books have been recommended to me after a few people have spent time with Halle. Was I offended- no. Do I feel like I have a fiesty one- yes, at times. The funny thing is about 55 pages into "The Strong-Willed Child," I realized two things.
1. That a child's nature mostly comes from their genetic makeup- not environment, so I felt a sigh of relief that no, I am not a bad mom, she was just born this way.
2. Halle does not fit the profile of a "strong-willed child." Yay!!!
I was so relieved because a lot of what I was reading about the typical strong-willed child, she does not fit. She was great baby- slept well, ate well, listens to me, and is usually just a fun, great kid. Now there are times when Miss Independent comes out and knows exactly what she wants. All of this to say, I realize she's not even two yet, and I'm going to keep reading to learn maybe some techniques of what to do in certain situations. If anything, as I was reading, I was thanking God for such a great kid! So, my little girl, that's growing up every day is facing the challenges of a normal going-to-be two year old and I'm sure we'll face many challenges. Overall, she's just the best, I mean look at that face! I can't get enough of her!
4 comments:
Shan - She's getting so big. What a darling. Thinking about you a lot lately with all of your life changes.
What a doll! Thinking of you! Mom
Shannon- it's been so long since I've gotten on the blog. It was great to read your updates...job opportunities and parenting! We will continue to pray for you guys as you seek the next step! Also...need to inform you that I'm pregnant! :) I just updated my blog so you can see the news! I will email details later! :)
Yes honey her face says it all! That is why Dad is so lenient on her at times! :)
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